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Latest Posts
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How to Stop Second-Guessing Yourself and Trust Your Decisions
Have you ever made a decision, felt reasonably comfortable with it, and then started questioning yourself a few hours or days later? Perhaps you remembered another option, heard someone else’s opinion, or began imagining everything that could go wrong. If this sounds familiar, you may be wondering how to stop second-guessing yourself. Sometimes, reconsidering a…
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People Pleasing: Why You Say Yes When You Want to Say No
Someone asks you for a favor. Before you have even thought about it, you say: “Sure, I can do that.” Then, a few minutes later, you realize you did not actually want to say yes. This can be one of the more subtle patterns of people pleasing: agreeing before you have even checked what you…
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Perfectionism and Self-Worth: When High Standards Start to Define Your Value
Being a perfectionist can look like a strength from the outside. But there is a point where high standards stop being simply about the quality of what you do. They start becoming a way of deciding whether you are good enough. That is where perfectionism and self-worth can become closely connected. The problem isn’t necessarily…
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How to Be Proud of Yourself Without Putting Yourself Down
Learning how to be proud of yourself can sound like a simple thing. You accomplish something difficult, you do something well, or someone tells you they are impressed, and you let yourself feel good about it. But for many people, that isn’t what happens. You finish a difficult project and immediately think about what could…
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Why Do I Feel Like I’m Not Good Enough? And Why Do I Keep Looking for Proof?
Have you ever noticed how quickly one small thing can change the way you see yourself and make you ask: Why do I feel like I’m not good enough? You make a mistake at work and suddenly you’re thinking, I’m just not good at this. Someone doesn’t choose you, and it becomes, Of course. I’m…
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How to Be Kinder to Yourself Without Expecting Less from Yourself
In our previous article, we discussed that being hard on yourself isn’t the same as having high standards. You can care deeply about your goals, want to improve, and still decide that constant self-criticism isn’t the way you want to motivate yourself. But that leaves another question: how do you actually learn to be kinder…
